ditto you all you say, but it does explain your 1959 photo, unless Stanley came ahead to Hawaii & mom and Ann stayed behind for a year. Certain questions you ask linger in my memory & that photo was one of them.
Going to keep that 1959 date in mind. As for the “1960” marriage, that was my first thought, but I am also going to keep that date in mind because one thing I notice about our BHO is that he rarely speaks, acts, disguises or reveals from an emotional base; his motives are almost always political. In fact he seems to lack emotional bonds to anyone, anyone. Every person in his life becomes fodder to put into his “narrative” as he sees fit.
IMO two things can do that to one, and he's got them both. Narcissism and islam.