I dress myself daily and have the job of parenting two orphaned children adopted from Russian institutions.
I know what adoption and loss of birth parents does to a child.
I think that birth mother needs therapy to deal with the rape and separate that experience from the child she bore. Her life sounds terrible, and what her attitude and actions will do to her daughter is also terrible.
Now, run along and tell your attendant to ask the doc about increasing your meds.
Which is fine, but irrelevant. You know little, is anything, about the circumstances of this woman's life, yet you presume to make decisions for her.
You should be credited with creating so much opinion with what is, to be blunt, total ignorance on your part...but you should consider the difference between your feeling and the law. If you can't, again, you should be posting somewhere else.