She doesn’t care about divorce when there are no kids. If there are kids, than abuse if the ONLY legit reason to break up a family.
Divorced parents should really not be dating until the kids are grown. If they must date, they shouldn’t be bringing their dates home to meet the kids.
That's not what she says, unless she's changed her advice. I haven't listened to her regularly for a few years. She says if there are issues of drug or alcohol use or infidelity, divorce is not only justified but should be pursued in most cases. Of course, that includes the vast majority of divorces, at least in one party's perception.
If she's woken up and changed her advice, I'm glad.