Yea well, that sounds like my younger daughter, who bought her sister's daughter one of those scratchy princess dressed for her 4th birthday. :)
I'm only the father/grandfather, what do I know? The four year old seemed to like it though. She's gonna be just as independent as her mother and aunt, so I'm not worried, except about when I have to buy her a gun, or even before that when I can take her shooting. Oh, and IF, I'll be able to buy her a gun when the time comes. Now THAT is something to worry about. Not scratchy little girl princess dresses.
Awe...I hope you will be able to teach her to handle a gun. My late father taught me and those are some of my favorite memories with him.