I always believed salvation was monergistic. What we argued over was whether faith, being a gift, was an act of human volition.
“It is a poor sermon that gives no offense; that neither makes the hearer displeased with himself nor with the preacher. “ George Whitefield
Be still my heart.
As for human volition, I was reading Jeremiah the other day...
Arise, and go down to the potter's house, and there I will cause thee to hear my words." -- Jeremiah 18:1-2"The word which came to Jeremiah from the LORD, saying,
We're all deaf unless He "causes us to hear."