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What I meant was that at one point they made a choice to go after the same sex. If they want to get married they should choose to go straight again. I never had any thought of the same sex, I have always been straight.

Thanks for the question.

I never had any thought of the same sex, I have always been straight.

I would like to understand your perspective on this. I hope you don't mind. You said you never had any thought of the same sex, you've always been straight. Do you think it is legitimate for a gay person to say "I have never had any thought of the opposite sex, I have always been gay."

If you do not think that is legitimate, does that mean that you believe all people are "born straight" and that gay people, for some reason, just sort of try out both straight and gay stuff and then just decide they liked the gay stuff better?

because, like you, I never had any thought of the same sex either. I've always been straight. I was always attracted to women, always had girl friends, and am now happily married for 9 years. I was able to marry the person I was attracted to and wanted to marry. It seems reasonable to me that gay people have always been attracted to the same sex, always had 'partners' of the same sex and would like to marry the person they are attracted to. I was able to marry the person I was attracted to and wanted to marry. Gay people can not marry the person they are attracted to and want to marry. I do not see how that is fair.