[rahbert]

equality is reserved for traits people have no control over
such as their race or their gender.

there is no equality on the basis of behavior which is what this is. they can quietly shack up or not as they choose.

just don’t call it marriage. it insults my intelligence and
make me very angry.

[steve-b]

equality is reserved for traits people have no control over

So, you have no problem with "No Joooos need apply" signs, then?