I am a “decent woman.” Three sons, one husband. I have never even thought of being unfaithful. But I’ll be damned if I would ever allow DNA testing just to prove my husband was the father of my children.
If my husband requested a DNA test when my kids were born, he wouldn’t be my husband much longer.
I wish you could live the hell a lot of men have lived because of their “decent women’s” affairs. I have never been unfaithful to a wife. That didn’t stop my first wife having a long term affair. I imagine she would have gotten her bloomers in an uproar also if I had requested a DNA test. ;0)
I did notice the “my kids” part. How about your husband’s kids? My ex wife always referred to our kids as hers.