“They do have pre-conception choices though. If they want a choice in the matter, they need to prevent conception.”
Sure men have three.
Women have 10 - 15?
Do you think if there was a depo shot for men or a male birth control pill that unwed births would still be a problem?
So is your frustration that there are not more choices for birth control for men or that they don’t have the final say if they choose to not use birth control and a woman gets pregnant?
(I’m just trying to understand where you’re coming from before I answer further.)