Do you have any quote from Sarah—the woman I used to think was a kind of biblical Deborah—repudiating her daughter’s assinine abstinence remarks? Produce them.
I don't see what was asinine about her daughter's remarks. Her message was that the abstinence is right, but unfortunately nowadays more and more young people don't follow it, hence it is "unrealistic". From her entire comments it's apparent that she doesn't say abstinence is wrong. To the contrary. She repeatedly recommended other girls to learn from her mistake and wait 10 years.
the woman I used to think was a kind of biblical Deborah
Yeah sure you did.
Why should such an affair be aired before the unbelievers any further than it disgracefully has?
Yeah, I know, you will have a hundred reasons. I see simple personal disappointment that Sarah has not preached on everything she could potentially preach. When Sarah starts preaching AGAINST abstinence, let US know.