[yldstrk]

The basic problem seems to be the people that don’t deserve the help seem to hate the people that give them a hand, perverse as that may be. The moral of the story? Don’t give them a hand. They will only hate you for it. Make one set of rules and apply it to everyone.

[libh8er]

Biting the hand that feeds. But they do it without realizing it because all they hear from their politicians is that the hand that feeds them is really the hand that has taken away from them.

[org.whodat]

Make one set of rules and apply it to everyone.

The rule I live by, equal rights not special rights!!

[antceecee]

It is interesting when I read what you wrote. In family situations it works much the same way. Once you help them they resent or even hate you. The help most often does not change their lives because they have not changed their behavior.
Not surprising that this translates the same on a national scale.