Wow! Who knew?
“he worst fear of many black women in America is that white women are stealing their men.”
But of course, unless those men are committed to those ladies, they are not “theirs.” All males and females have a right to choose their own mates, without someone else feeling they have a claim on them. And even more specifically, even when people are securely attached and/or married, the other person still doesn’t “belong” to them. We may be committed to someone else, but we never OWN that person.
On the other hand, I’ve also heard that many beautiful, smart, together black ladies have been looking for intelligent white men. It seems not to be about that phony thing race, but about, as another survey we read about recently, finding people we are comfortable with because of something we have in common.