I dont have a personal stake in this, but I have often pondered the breakdown in the family (not seen in new immigrants.) The irony is that the old Mom is worth nothing but the new Mom, as long as she can get pregnant over and over, is the queen. She gets to say goodbye (abortion ) , or she gets the family court enforced child support. It is insane. My sister is a stay at home Mom, Palin groupie.
I do have two friends who were married with 2+3 kids in MD and had lives were ruined because the stay at home Moms (very unhappy) fled the state with their kids(one went to another country) then sued for child support afterward. Initially the Dad;s didnt contest it, thinking of the kids(huge mistake) , but then much later they realized they wouldnt see their kids and would have their paycheck taken too.
Men are sending mixed messages. They want a woman to work and earn her keep and to be ready to party. It’s not long before such a woman meets the next attractive man and wants to move on. Men gave up their claim on their children with no-fault.