Perhaps that would please you, but to those that thrive on total reality, those informative anecdotes are welcomed.
The Lord didn’t say “if you can’t beat’em join’em,” he said to be set apart. That means that we need to know from whom to be set apart.
It would please me if a woman I think highly of rose above petty remarks.
Perhaps you and I are not understanding each other.
And I seriously doubt the Lord approves of pettiness.