I have to ask: Why do you think people hate you? You seem to be equaling people who disagree strenuously with people who hate. People disagreeing with you politically isn't hatred and it isn't flaming.
Is there a reason for this?
Do you feel as though there is some sort of point to be gained by making yourself or your candidate the underdog?
I haven't seen any hatred, just conservatives who really dislike Mitt Romney because Mitt Romney isn't conservative. He isn't. On his best day, he's sort of squishy-moderate. Saying so doesn't make it hatred. Pointing it out doesn't make it hatred. Political dialogue isn't hatred.
12 hours of my time is enough for one subject. Calling me all sorts of names and attacking my values etc without taking on the political subject is not political discourse at least not for intelligent, principled, thoughtful people.
But don't take my word for it. I would like for you to take all the names I have been called and accusations that have been made against me (not Romney as you wrongly say has been going on here!) and have a 'discussion' with your loved ones such as friends and family maybe co-workers and tell me how 'intelligently' those discussions turns out with all of those things I have been called as well as the accusation all at one person and don't forget a one otherwise it will not be a true experiment.
With the name calling and avoidance of intelligent discussion with personal attacks an false accusation alone you will not be having a discussion at all but a fight. Try it and get back to me and tell me all about how your fantasized tea and crumpets political discourse goes when the names start flying at just one person along with the false accusation.