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The problem with not waiting, though, is that most women (AND men) in their teens and twenties (at their most fertile) aren’t anywhere near financially stable enough (or often mentally/socially stable enough) to start a family.

Our Peter Pan adolescent-idolatrous culture is [at least in theory] just fine for boys [as long as they don't lose their sperm counts], but it's death for girls.

My advice for twenty-ish girls would be to marry up by ten or fifteen years: Look for a guy in his late 30s or early 40s who is emotionally mature and financially capable of supporting you.

Don't waste your fertile years on some pimply-faced twit who doesn't give a damn about you and who will drop you like a hot potato when the going gets tough.

Find a real man who is ready and willing to give you babies.