no kidding. i’m in florida now (clearwater beach area) and most of the women i run into violate:
o no smoking (forgot that one)
o no drugs
o no crazy tattoos or piercings
o not a whore
and sometimes a lack of teeth becomes an issue.
forget the desire to find a very intelligent woman. these days, if she can go 30 minutes without coughing up half a lung while staying conscious... it’s a plus. (my female friends in california keep asking why i’m not dating... if they only knew the selection)
ok... ok... there are quite a few nice looking ladies, but the above 4 bullet items are usually a problem. i just don’t see how i can compromise any more then i already have (not even spec’ing out education, personality or looks)
-tattooed and heavily pierced
-neurotic as hell
-promiscuous enough to make an alley cat blush
Lack of teeth, smoking, and drugs haven't been issues so far. I guess I should count myself lucky
Been around the block (58/male) ..actually could write a book called
“Around The Block”...and part of becoming an educated aware male is to understand the psychological fact that ALL women are a mixture of the “Whore/Madonna” . The guys that buy into the idea that they can play with the Whore a marry the Madonna type are always the ones that end up with the wife who runs off with the poolboy and are totally blindsided....(”gee and I aways thought she was such a good girl”). I call it the “Bridges of Madison County” dynamic. Story of the “good girl” in rural America who was married to a nice supportive guy but was all to eager to drop her panties for the traveling photograper who breezes into town. Of course the husband never found out and she stayed married to him but was secretly in love with the “world traveler” for the rest of her life. Point? Virtually ALLl women are party girls in the right situation and with the right guy. You are deluding yourself to think otherwise. It’s more of a character issue than anything else...and that’s what I pay attention to. Things like “tramp stamp” tattoos
don’t really mean anything...