Blessings on your husband. He is admired more than he can know.
He is a wonderful man, and he is strong. Death comes to us all, and the best we can hope for is that it comes with dignity.
To live a few years longer because one has taken another life is disgusting, and gives death a value it does not deserve. Death should not be given this power.
We live and die, so be it. Let us do it with grace and faith, not shamelessly killing future life. How despicable can we be?