I am kind-of thinking she is not in the wrong, also, unless I hear something drastic to change my mind.
If she is a Reserve, then she is wrong. She would be drawing a monthly check and have lots of other benefits.
She could have finished her duty and said I am through with this.
But she must have elected to take the benefits of Reserve.
So she will have to serve.
My friends son has just finished his time in the Reserve, he stayed long enough to complete his 20 years. He was sent to Africa on his last deployment.