Preposterous.
If you’d lived for 37 years with the “side effects” of abuse, I bet you wouldn’t say that.
For some of us, this explains why *nothing* we do ever “erases” the damage.
This seems to imply we were “wet-wired” into what we are, now.
And not to put too fine a point on it, it *seriously* sucks and “changes” your whole life, right down to the tiniest details.
[and for all I know, it changes it forever which I can’t provide proof for since I’m still alive and “forever” hasn’t come yet]