Good point. I know a few dads who turned out to be great, especially compared to their ex-wives. And I know some in the opposite situation.
A loser is a loser regardless of race, gender, or creed. Let’s call it like it is.
My ex owes me enough where if we lived in Sherrif Joe’s jurisdiction, she’d be eligible for lockup, but I live somewhere where men have less rights. “Too bad” is pretty much the official statement to a dad owed child support from a woman. I know a lot of dads in this situation, and not because of some support group silliness.