You’re talking about taking responsibility for your own children. Not leaving it up to the doctors to decide. As I get older, I find myself talking more and more to my doctor when he recommends something. Luckly, he’s an open minded guy and explains things. Should I want to try something different, he goes along if it makes sense. He recommended blood pressure meds. I went with a natural product and I’m doing fine. It’s our body, we need to be aware of what can happen if meds don’t work. Especially with our children.
While there’s nothing wrong with what you’ve described in principle it’s also true that we don’t have the right to deprive our children of potentially life-saving or serious illness preventing medicine. I confess to not being pro-choice when it comes to vaccination.