But she made her own decisions. It seems rather disingenous of her to blame her predicament on “feminism”.
I agree. Many of us were brought up in the same time period, with the same indoctrination, and yet have made different choices in our lives. One is free to reject an erroneous ideology, no matter how strongly "society" pushes it. Nobody forced her to turn down marriage proposals.
Had it not been for a feminist mother raising her with the feminist doctrine, she might have chosen another path. And she can blame her decision making process on the influences in her life. I believe we all do, for good or for bad.