Have your husband read this article:
Crypto Sensitivity Syndrome
http://www.backlash.com/content/disab/2003/rvm1203.html
The author is not a leftie, hates what psychiatry has done to this disorder, and functions well also.
I have spent 15 years trying to find what is causing my son’s problems. He is very much like the author.
My husband just didn’t want put his laundry away, find things for himself in the refrigerator, or make sure there was money in the bank before he wrote a check.