That responsibility includes moral strength, which includes NOT screwing outside marriage, period. Then there would be no innocent illegitimate children to worry about - and fewer men wishing they could roam free (and getting that wish) to let their appendages have more fun. Lack of morals is the real problem, not “women needing to be taken care of”.
Right. Men who are not taking responsibility for their families. But when that happens, it’s a woman’s instinct to make sure her children survive. In the absence of the father or her own self-reliance, she looks to the nanny government for help.