“....But after we get over the hump and the old folks born before birth control was widely in use die off things are going to go back to normal.”
What the hell is “normal” to you? You argue like a member of the Zero Population Group, not a conservative.
The problem is far bigger than the pill. It’s that society has devalued traditional family life and the blessings - yes, that’s right - the BLESSINGS of children. The children who are born today are often neglected, abused while both parents pursue the Almighty Dollar, or they’re in single family homes trying to survive despite great odds, the children are not being raised knowing right vs wrong, they aren’t going to church or synagogue anymore to learn there is a God who loves them, they’re having their own babies out of wedlock when they grow to be teenagers, etc.
With nothing to stop those trends the situation will never be “normal” ever again, no matter what the population numbers happen to be.
Perhaps you meant to say 'stabilize' or 'reach a new norm'. Until recently it has never been "normal" to maintain small families through the mass use of abortions and contraceptives.