Well, I don’t like labels of “bad” and “good” in the sense that sometimes people do things because they are coming from a place of deep, profound pain. However, I still think my mom’s point was valid. The girls who often slept around were very sophisticated and savvy about not getting pregnant while the gal who just had the same sweetheart all through high school often was the one who got pregnant and then had to face the music.
Some sins are more visual than others... and terminating a pregnancy can be done quite secretively.