That is exactly right Brytlea. When something happens, if the first you do is look around and say “Whose fault is this?” you are never going to fix anything because sometimes the fault lies in yourself.
Sadly, I see too many people (can you say frivolous lawsuits???) make that mistake of looking around to figure point instead of fixing something they could have done better.
I think a lot of that starts in our education system. We tell kids they are a wonderful and we don’t really let them fail (not 100% but to a great extent). They parents follow that protocol as well.
I have said for a long time that we are going to have a bunch of bitter 40 year olds one day who don’t understand why they weren’t really able to be a Dr. or the President, after all they were always told they could be whatever they wanted to be.