First, how does name calling solve anything? Pre-schoolers with undeveloped coping skills handle playground spats by name calling but then they grow up.
Second, why on earth would anyone care what another poster thinks of them? FR is not now nor has it ever been known for nurturing hothouse flowers or gentle treatment of thin-skinned whiners. Its a place were opinions fly and it doesn't take most FReepers long to take the measure of other posters on any issue.
Third, Where is it written that FReepers are not to post on other sites? Does the phrase, Get a grip, mean the same thing to you that it does to the rest of us?
Lastly, so you were shunned... or you felt as if you were being shunned. So what? Where you damaged in anyway? Please tell me that your self-respect is not so fragile that you would allow a slight or a supposed slight to affect your ability to reason for 7 years? FGS! we've had two national elections, fought in two wars, seen our economy drop like a ton of bricks and now we see our way of life threatened from within and you're still holding on to posts from a woman who probably doesn't even know you exists? Would you try to counsel a needy child who behaved in such a manner or would you leave that to professionals?
A Howlin ping list from 2002:
Pokey78; Mo1; Amelia; kcvl; deport; Miss Marple; JeanS; terilyn; justshe; Darlin'