I agree, in the context Prince Harry was using it in, its a fuss about nothing. Me and my friends refer to each other as ‘nonces’ (brit vulgar slang for paedophile), ‘c**ts’, ‘t**ts’ etc frequently as a means of affectionate insult. Taken out of context it’s outrageous, and if I was to go up to some guy I didn’t know and call them those names, I’d expect a fist to be heading towards my face pretty soon after....
Love,
Mom