you are losing this discussion. why not just smile and be a man.....apologize to the lady.
;^)
It’s not a crude term and I am a Church going Lady who happens to be in the medical field. You all need to get a life if all you can do all day is complain about silly little terms.
YOU are the one who is losing this discussion and there is NO need for him to apologize for giving his opinion.
And no need to attempt eat your own! Why be a butthead over butts? :-)