Im tryin to understand the rationale of the handful of women on these two threads that believe its selfish for a man to desire his WIFE, but dont think the opposite is selfish when they require 3 days of Don Juan 'motor startin' before theyll do the 'chores'... 7 kids, you mustve been persuaded on occassion eh ???
3 days isn’t necessary.
A few minutes of well invested time oughta do the trick - and that’s when she’s not in the mood.
When she’s in the mood you most likely won’t have to work very hard at all.
Yeah, the article does start with the premise of a good and decent man. In that light, as a wife, you need to do what it takes to keep that decent man happy. I tried for a long time to keep my no good man happy and failed miserably. We have 7 great kids and I have no regrets about them. I have come to learn that happiness comes from the inside. He was and remains miserable and it is not my job to be his constant source of entertainment and/or happiness.