[PapaBear3625]

As for the second part: question.... seriously, and not being terrible.... when a female is tired, which is worse, for her to say, "Not tonight. Can we just cuddle?" Or for her to fall asleep during the act?

re: "just cuddle": if you were really in the mood for a delicious chocolate sundae, would being allowed to just look at one work for you? Or would it just be annoying and frustrating?

[denfurb]

Well, isn’t it fair to give the gal a break if you know she is tired and not making excuses?