I agree. There are exceptions. There is abuse, etc. But by abuse, I mean SERIOUS abuse.
Well, the seriousness of the abuse would be determined by the victim, I suppose. When you treat your wife like the maid you get to ****, she will feel very disrepected and unloved. Likewise, if you treat your husband like a naughty child, he will feel very disrespected and unloved...and there goes the path to divorce court.