>>When sex is as good for a woman as it is for a man, she will want it just about as often. Men who complain that their wives are never in the mood should look to their skills as a lover.<<
Being in my second marriage I can tell you that “can be” BS. The two relationships are night and day, at least regarding the topic at hand.
With some people, if their mind is made up about a thing, nothing you can do will change it.
Sometimes sex is NEVER good for a woman because of the demons she carries through from childhood. I pitty the men who marry them. Especially if they have a normal libido.
But they’ll know what to look for the second time around - and they will almost certainly get that “second chance”, usually at the wifes behest!
You’re right. I married one of those. I don’t think she’s in any way “typical” of most women, but she’s exactly “typical” of a woman fighting these demons.