“Her husband arrived home unexpectedly and said “I need to use you,” so her friend had to leave.”
Uh, huh. And if were 2008 Seattle, and a guy and his buddies were sitting on the sofa with their feet up on the coffee table watching the Super Bowl, and his “career woman” girlfriend came in and threw all the buddies out and turned off the TV because she wanted some, there’d be nothing but applause from the distaff section of the bleachers.
If it were 2008 Seattle, there’d be nothing but applause from the buddies who had to leave.
Since we’re operating on the assumption that men need to go all the time, and prefer sex to any other possible activity, what’s the problem here? Except that the couple isn’t married, of course, which is a BIG part of the issue under discussion, imo.