Well, I had a great husband. We were a good match, and used to love to tease each other. Anything silly thing to get involved, play, mess around, cuddle, &etc &etc. He didn’t seem to mind to help but I DID make it worth his while.
I’m sorry for your loss.
You clearly enjoy the wonderful memories.
Mama always said that it was a compliment to the first marriage when a widow or widower remarried. Of course, I’m fairly certain that she thought she would outlive him.
She died a couple of years ago, after Daddy cared for her 24/7 for nearly 2 years - even after her disease made her a mean old woman. He married again within 7 months. I’m going to take it as a compliment to Mama. (Well, most days I try. I did think I’d get over it sooner than he did.)