“How many times will the buddy come back to visit before deciding to go to the bar instead ???”
It’s a good question - but I was only trying to compare similar situations - not exact situations.
My point - is that it is very difficult for the women to “engage” when her brain isn’t involved - when she isn’t “in the mood”.
So I guess another good question would be..how can the buddy get his friend’s attention?
I’m not saying this is how it should be “every” time.
I’ve already said much of Mr. Prager’s article is very good.
I’m talking about the section where he’s addressing women who aren’t in the mood.
He needs to be aware of her 'distractions'as well... but the fact that when she sees the advance coming, she has a bit of responsibility in allowing herself to be put in the mood,or gettin herself in the mood before the advance [since we all know its comin] and can do much to 'help' him get her motor started [tactfully, of course] unless she simply doesnt care...
probably sounds rambling...communication breakdown...lolol...