>>My husband used to think the way that you do, but the FLDS child bride rapes made him rethink the issue.
I should be really clear that I am talking strictly of sex, not the violence. That is a completely different matter. If violence is involved, for me it is no longer rape (between a married couple) but it is assault and/or battery. I am just separating the egg white, yolk and shell. The raw sexual part of “rape” cannot be a part of “rape” between the partners of a marriage. Both granted permission on the altar.
Don’t get me wrong. I would NEVER force myself on my wife. But then, that is easy for me to say since I would never have to. It is, frankly, repugnant to me.
The repugnance is wise. Trust it.