LOL I knew a woman who was so sick of feeling like she was nothing more than a place for him to put it.
Her daughter had a doll that could go swimming in the swimming pool due to this little life saver that came with it. It was like a donut. It had a place where you could blow air into it etc. Rather than fill it with air, this woman filled it with warm water. When they went to bed and he made his move, she handed him this donut.
That got the long needed conversation going. Now they are doing great.
...or look like they are. If she plotted a sarcastic embargo, in advance, with a mock sex toy, LOL!