[sgtyork]

No, I get that point.

But lots of women make themselves heroes in how much they can juggle, how full they can make their plates —ensuring that their mind is constantly elsewhere. That sounds like ‘not being in the mood’.

[Scotswife]

“But lots of women make themselves heroes in how much they can juggle, how full they can make their plates”

generalize much?

that wasn’t what I was trying to do at all.