“I am thinking that I would hope that in a similar situation I would be helping others get out before I exit. “
You might be making more of a logjam instead of helping. Just get out. The flight attendants are more than capable of ensuring people get out.
I think we size up the situation and act on what's going to be the best thing to do.
This is what all the air safety people say. GET OUT. Trying to “help” just hinders others.
I always volunteer for the exit row when I fly. I guarantee you that the door will be open and I’ll be gone in an instant if need be.
And I pity the fool that holds up the works... he/she will be off the plane the HARD way.