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One problem that some of them seem to have is a lack of modesty.

There is a large subset of the broader science fiction, fantasy, anime, role-playing, SCA, etc. subculture that's having plenty of cheap meaningless sex and you can find plenty of message boards in that same group of people where they talk about what a wreck their social lives are and how much heartache they've suffered. And that's a subculture where being willing to have sex with anyone can give even an unattractive woman an amazing amount of social power over a lot of guys. No thanks. What I've seen isn't better than being mocked for being a virgin at 40.

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It's amazing what some people are willing to share with others. Nothing is too personal or degrading, apparently. I've had women I have just met or barely know confess things that shocked me speechless. It seems to be a growing trend, and I think that is part of the problem.