Just a thought...
It might do us all well to go back to those days when there was a single “denomination” where men and women weren’t basing their selection of a gathering on how it lined up with one’s own understanding (Prov. 3:4-5), but on the directing of the Holy Spirit (see the early chapters of the book of Acts).
Is God divided? (We know that men are...)
We will one day, but until then I will base my understanding on what God, through His Spirit, reveals to me.