You are right. But what I was pointing to was the practice of charging hatred to squelch the voicing of opinions and ideas. Gays are using charges of "hatred" to make us all accept their lifestlye. Minority groups often use charges of "hatred" as a means to take advantage of our guilt. Mormons are using claims of "hatred" when there is any oppostition to their theology. This isn't what Christ meant, is it?
Yeah, we are in agreement on this. I was creating a springboard from which I or someone else could make the clear point that we are to hate the sin but love the sinner.
It is certainly what God does or I would be royally screwed! We all would. Every one.