none of which addresses the fact that the domestic partner law was not given equal weight to a marriage as people claim.
No one is implying such a thing, and, in fact, I hope that domestic partner laws DON'T make such partnerships the same as marriage in all but name.
The complaints by the homo-activists is that they are undefendibly vulnerable to contested legal arrangements - to listen to them, you'd think this a widespread, common problem, with partners being smacked down right and left. I'm saying that this is a lie and that a properly executed legal document should hold up in all by the most activist court. We shouldn't be ruled by the exceptions in a society.