I hear you. I’m 48, so being at the height of fashion isn’t my goal but I do love clothes; classic, simple, flattering clothes.
I hope J Jill survives online. Coldwater Creek has some nice stuff as well, though I’m sure you know of them. :)
I’m 45, and lost the little zest I ever had for being in the “height of fashion” eons ago, LOL. At this point, the name of the game is looking neat and polished, I don’t ask for much more :)
I get the Coldwater Creek catalogs, but I haven’t ordered from them yet, they kind of get lost in the shuffle of the zillions of catalogs I get. I’m paring down my spending now anyway (the “Atlas Shrugged” thing). I have a huge family-9 siblings, and all their children-so I think this year they’re all going to get something from the Swiss Colony, and I’ll be done. My husband is the one who’s difficult to buy for, because he doesn’t want anything!