Let’s just say I’ve “been there, done that”... and picked up a bit of judgement along the way.
You know the saying:
Good judgement comes from experience.
And experience comes from bad judgement.
Of course, wise people learn that fire burns without having to stick their hand in the flame...
Reminds me of that wonderful line from a poem of Rudyard Kipling:
“And the Fool’s bandaged finger goes wabbling back to the fire.”
PS - Feminism is a great evil.