“. . . over-the-top contentious behavior . . .”
Yes, and anger is certainly one of the stages of dealing with grief, and some will display it more than others. I guess it will just have to run its course.
In recent weeks I’ve vented my frustration in freepmail a time or two. Others may need to do so more publicly, and I have some understanding of the motivation to vent.
I would urge waiting more than a few days. It will take some time to settle out. Any voice of reason and good cheer will be needed here, so if you do decide to take a respite from FR hurry back real soon. Your posts over the years have been an encouragement to more than a few people.
IOW let your reptilian brain slow down and allow your intellect to take carefully over.
A real rage killer...
If I was not a chaste woman I would let my reptilian brain rage me into some good 40hr sweaty sex.
However..forbrain is in motion and I cant find a 32yr old Euro blooded man. /sarc