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Child support law leaves man a default dad
Tulsa World ^ | October 13, 2008 | Jarrel Wade

Posted on 10/14/2008 4:39:29 AM PDT by RogerFGay

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To: pgyanke
And I shouldn't leave out Why John McCain is Losing.
Remember Sarah Palin? She lit a fire under the campaign when chosen as McCain’s VP running mate. She may have been single-handedly responsible for what has become known as the RNC convention “bounce.” An amazing bounce it was – particularly in the way that it lingered. It lingered in fact until it began to appear that Palin’s tenacity as a culture warrior was being reigned in. Going into battle with only the old McCain campaign strategy strapped to her back, she now continues the fight unarmed.
Neil Cavuto is talking about that right now with Meghan McCain.
201 posted on 10/14/2008 1:41:44 PM PDT by RogerFGay
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To: An American In Dairyland
I made it a point to tell you flat out that I wasn't talking about McCain.

It's Sarah Palin as I understand it. I'm just saying McCain because she's on his team. I don't mean to be talking behind your back, BTW. I think / thought I understood you - you do believe that Sarah Palin's behavior re: her brother in law provides proof positive that she's .... I almost hate to say because I can only use my own words, just trying to capture the view you've presented ... anyway ... you take this to be politically relevant .. an indication of her true character to say the least - right?
202 posted on 10/14/2008 1:45:10 PM PDT by RogerFGay
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To: pgyanke
When you come back... could you try dealing in specifics for the lurkers out here? Your inuendos are really annoying...

No. This has been a continuation of a semi-private (sort of) debate Roger Gay and I have been having on MND, usenet, as well as here a bit in the past. I asked him if he wanted to take it to email but he declined which I said in advance was fine with me but I didn't say I'd drop the subject with him.

I'm not going to open the can of worms here that would result if I mentioned directly precisely *who* we are speaking about. It would do no good here and would result in me getting flamed and eventually banned in all likelihood because my opinion on this runs counter to the Republican base's opinion. However, I am surprised at how many people here can't read between the lines and guess who the person is I'm referring to. Roger even gave out a big hint in one of his replies to me. I guess this just goes to show what happens when people get blinded by the Party's wants and needs and don't stop to examine what they are *really* getting in exchange for their vote.

203 posted on 10/14/2008 1:45:53 PM PDT by An American In Dairyland (BTW, I am a woman :)
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To: An American In Dairyland
*Nobody* can have it both ways. You cannot lecture on the need for men to vote for better candidates on men's issues and family issues and *at the same time* be a cheerleader for a candidate who personally uses family court as a weapon against *any* man. You are losing credibility every time you insist you can have it both ways.

But it's not right for anyone to be the subject of false accusations - don't you agree? That fundamental principle is one worth fighting for.
204 posted on 10/14/2008 1:46:59 PM PDT by RogerFGay
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To: RogerFGay
It's really nice to know that someone out there remembers something I wrote.

I did remember something you wrote, but unfortunately it did not apply to the conversation. Maybe the bar was set to high. Like ethics in congress.

205 posted on 10/14/2008 1:48:59 PM PDT by Pan_Yan (All gray areas are fabrications.)
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To: Pan_Yan
I think they were having a private conversation on a public thread. And believe the answer is in one of RogerFGay’s previous articles for Mens Daily Something-or-the-other in which he implied, but did not expressly give open support for Condelezza Rice as a Pres/VP candidate.

I was not discussing Dr. Rice. Had Roger supported her I would continue to respect him as an advocate for men's and family issues. I am unaware that Dr. Rice has ever personally gone after a man in Family Court for personal gain when she was in a position of power. Maybe that will help you guess the right person.

206 posted on 10/14/2008 1:50:06 PM PDT by An American In Dairyland (BTW, I am a woman :)
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To: wtc911

I can’t excuse someone morally for not caring for his kids. However, if this gem is as wonderful as you portray him then the mom might have made the right decision to keep him out of the kids’ lives.


207 posted on 10/14/2008 1:51:11 PM PDT by Pan_Yan (All gray areas are fabrications.)
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To: Pan_Yan
Like ethics in congress.

The what?
208 posted on 10/14/2008 1:53:02 PM PDT by RogerFGay
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To: pgyanke

Taser...don’t even go there. That is exactly why I didn’t mention her name. True conservatives don’t defend one person’s bad behavior by pointing out the bad behavior of someone else. They address ALL bad behavior. Current Republicans apparently prefer to cherry pick what they consider acceptable and unacceptable behavior. We put all the blame on one person and give an equally “bad” person a free pass.

This is also one reason why McCain will lose on November 4th. Republicans have a history of picking out bad candidates and sticking with them when the base never should have accepted them in the first place.


209 posted on 10/14/2008 1:54:22 PM PDT by An American In Dairyland (BTW, I am a woman :)
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To: wtc911
Whom do you respect?

Neither...one I pity, the other I despise.

210 posted on 10/14/2008 1:59:15 PM PDT by gogeo (Democrats want to support the troops by accusing them of war crimes.)
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To: RogerFGay
She wants focus on Sarah Palin's personal life

Personal life? Give me a break. Family Court and its records are open to the public, Roger. You know that better than I do. I can go to any court house and request to review any divorce case (with the exception of the few that are sealed by judges). There is nothing "personal" about this issue and there never was. Ms. Palin should have thought about the utter lack of privacy involved in what she was doing when she was using Family Court as a weapon if she wanted to continue on in politics. Don't give me this is about her "personal" life. It is now also a part of her record as Governor of Alaska. I have never called anyone a liar on FR before but I'm doing it now. This goes way beyond just misrepresenting my views, you are misrepresenting the facts as well.

211 posted on 10/14/2008 2:00:06 PM PDT by An American In Dairyland (BTW, I am a woman :)
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To: An American In Dairyland
I'm not going to open the can of worms here that would result if I mentioned directly precisely *who* we are speaking about. It would do no good here and would result in me getting flamed and eventually banned in all likelihood because my opinion on this runs counter to the Republican base's opinion. However, I am surprised at how many people here can't read between the lines and guess who the person is I'm referring to. Roger even gave out a big hint in one of his replies to me. I guess this just goes to show what happens when people get blinded by the Party's wants and needs and don't stop to examine what they are *really* getting in exchange for their vote...

Please, then, stop hijacking the thread.

212 posted on 10/14/2008 2:02:28 PM PDT by gogeo (Democrats want to support the troops by accusing them of war crimes.)
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To: RogerFGay
I have not been able to convince her that it's for focusing on important issues because she believes it's an important issue.

You are talking out of both sides of your mouth and you are not fooling me. You cannot tell these people how BAD the laws are and how BAD the system is for men and father's and *at the very same time* tell them that there is nothing wrong with voting for a candidate who HAS used family court and this BAD system in an effort to remove ONE father from his children's lives.

That you may be fooling yourself on this subject is your problem but I'm not going to ignore what you are doing or stop pointing out the utter hypocrisy of what you are doing. If anyone is ever to change this awful CS and family law system it will HAVE to be done via the ballot box and you overlooking some little female candidate's abuse of this awful system is not helping at all.

213 posted on 10/14/2008 2:05:29 PM PDT by An American In Dairyland (BTW, I am a woman :)
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To: An American In Dairyland

The answer has been revealed several times in the posts now. I was just taking a blind shot in the dark. I missed. The problem with this, as with any other national campaign, is that the candidate you find who is perfect in your chosen topic is probably a miserable failure is other areas. Reagan had his problems, Palin has hers. McCain needs a semi to haul his around. Obama would need a cargo train. Call it the lesser of two evils, call it the best available, but we have to chose one candidate based on every issue, not just our issue. Thats how democrats win. The only thing auto union members and enviro wackos have in common is November 4th.

I’m sorry if you get flamed for having a problem with the VP choice. The galloping herds tend to trample from thread to thread, often with pings involved, and bludgeon opposing views. I wish it didn’t happen. It has happened here on the management level, much to my regret. Yet there are still people here willing to have intelligent discussions on a variety of topics and still be respectful. There aren’t many places like that on the web.


214 posted on 10/14/2008 2:07:11 PM PDT by Pan_Yan (All gray areas are fabrications.)
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To: RogerFGay

It was a joke. Ethics in congress is about the lowest bar in modern society.


215 posted on 10/14/2008 2:08:47 PM PDT by Pan_Yan (All gray areas are fabrications.)
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To: RogerFGay
you take this to be politically relevant .. an indication of her true character to say the least

I do not take it as an indication of her *over all* character. I think there are lots of areas to judge that from and one "failure" for lack of a better word in one area does not mean I'm damning her as a human being.

However, when talking about the issues involving the men, fathers, the family...YES...she fails because of the *way* in which she used Family Court to go after a man who isn't even HER husband. And no, I do not believe that people who claim these particular issues are of great importance to them should be encouraged to vote for a person who has already behaved exactly like their ex-wives did with them in Family Court.

216 posted on 10/14/2008 2:10:42 PM PDT by An American In Dairyland (BTW, I am a woman :)
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To: An American In Dairyland
I don't see any end to the argument, so I was just hoping we could mutually understand one another and agree to disagree. As a factual matter, I haven't seen evidence to support what you're saying. It wasn't even her divorce and her sister and brother-in-law ended up with joint custody. It's certainly far from clear to say the least. So, what's the value of focusing on that question at the expense of focusing on real issues in a concrete way?

Sarah Palin has also been accused of forcing rape victims to pay for their own kits, whatever those are, and she apparently opposed withholding energy cost reimbursement checks from non-custodial fathers for child support. All I can see so far is that she's now McCain's girl and McCain (Republican Party) has worked hard at avoiding positive change. There's the real meat of the issue in my view.
217 posted on 10/14/2008 2:12:23 PM PDT by RogerFGay
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To: RogerFGay

What false accusations are you talking about?


218 posted on 10/14/2008 2:13:14 PM PDT by An American In Dairyland (BTW, I am a woman :)
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To: gogeo

I am not hijacking the thread. One of Roger’s themes through out all of the stories of real men is the need to make CHANGES in the laws to overturn this system and the way to do that is by VOTING. So I am on topic here.


219 posted on 10/14/2008 2:16:32 PM PDT by An American In Dairyland (BTW, I am a woman :)
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To: Pan_Yan
I’m sorry if you get flamed for having a problem with the VP choice. The galloping herds tend to trample from thread to thread, often with pings involved, and bludgeon opposing views. I wish it didn’t happen. It has happened here on the management level, much to my regret. Yet there are still people here willing to have intelligent discussions on a variety of topics and still be respectful. There aren’t many places like that on the web.

Thank you for saying that and letting me know that at least you aren't one of that herd. Trying to discuss anything here openly and honestly lately has become nearly impossible. Maybe after the election it will be different.

220 posted on 10/14/2008 2:18:50 PM PDT by An American In Dairyland (BTW, I am a woman :)
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